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class="theme-hope-content"><p>日月其迈，岁聿其莫<br><br></p><p>岁月总是在不经意间从肩头溜走</p><p>顿下脚步，突然发现我已经站在了30岁的门口</p><p>我总爱说的一句话是：<strong>无论何时归来，我都是少年</strong></p><p>但当而立之年真的到来，总归还是会有些恐慌和不安<br><br></p><p>2021年对我来说是非常关键的一年</p><p>今年也是做了很多对我而言非常重大的决定</p><p>也曾坚定、决然，也曾犹豫、彷徨</p><p>但是也相信一切都是最好的安排</p><p><strong>脚踏实地、莫急莫躁，你想要的岁月总会给你</strong></p><p>一路向前，相信结果总不会太差</p><h2 id="生活" tabindex="-1"><a class="header-anchor" href="#生活" aria-hidden="true">#</a> 生活</h2><p><br><br><img src="https://img-blog.csdnimg.cn/img_convert/0da9b5685548d0fe4427cb91e7b1ca32.png" alt="图片" loading="lazy"></p><p>2015年3月，我独自一人来到北京参加复试</p><p>那也是我第一次一个人离家那么远</p><p>当时复试情况并不理想，感觉可能会考研失败</p><p>那么这将很可能是第一次</p><p>也是我最后一次来北京了</p><p>所以在返程的那天早上</p><p>我特意又去了趟学校</p><p>迎着初升的太阳，在校门口拍下了这张照片<br><br></p><p>截至今年，已经是我远离家乡、来京漂泊的第七个年头了</p><p>也是在这第七个年头</p><p>结束了蜗居他人屋檐下的生活，<strong>算是定居北京</strong>了</p><p>2018年毕业的时候我对自己定过一个目标</p><p>就是完成<strong>落户北京</strong>、<strong>定居北京</strong>、<strong>摇中北京车牌</strong>这三件事</p><p>今年完成了第二件</p><p>这也算是近几年办成的一件大事了<br><br></p><p>生活上今年最大的改变是逐渐有了家的感觉</p><p>我一直都不是那种特别黏家的人</p><p>从高中毕业上大学开始</p><p>一年基本最多回家两次，有时是一次</p><p>但每周日晚给家里打电话的习惯</p><p>从初中开始一直保留到了现在</p><p>记得中学时期不让带手机</p><p>打电话用的是201卡打公用电话</p><p>所以我除了自己的电话</p><p>记得最熟的就是老爸老妈的电话号码了</p><p>现在在北京建立了自己的2-3人小家之后</p><p>慢慢地对“家”也有了一些初步的感觉</p><p>我觉得<strong>家其实不是“港湾”，而应该是“牵挂”</strong></p><p>无论出行远近，总有一份牵挂让你回去的地方，就是家</p><p>为了这份牵挂</p><p>你会做更慎重的决定</p><p>做更理智的选择</p><p>做更全面的考量<br><br></p><p>也算是人到中年吧，生活中另一个变化是真的开始注意养生了</p><p>喝水也开始喝热水了，水杯里也总想泡点东西了</p><p>公司早上10点组织的第九套广播体操也是非常积极地参加了</p><p>中午吃完饭也养成了踢踢毽子的习惯了</p><p>不着急的时候也更愿意放下共享单车走路溜达了</p><p>秋裤也穿的比往年早了许多了<br><br></p><p>身体健康状况感觉仍然良好</p><p>这也得益于养生的生活方式和定期的篮球、羽毛球活动</p><p>体重经过今年的小落小起</p><p>基本又回到了去年同期的水平</p><p>制定的减肥计划随着2021年最后一天的到来</p><p>最终宣告失败了</p><p>看来明年还得继续<br><br></p><h2 id="工作" tabindex="-1"><a class="header-anchor" href="#工作" aria-hidden="true">#</a> 工作</h2><blockquote><p>温酒入喉别三秋，纸短情长灞桥柳；他日重聚首，仍愿衣新人旧。</p><p>在七室我度过了非常难忘的三年，来不及与各位同事一一告别，还望见谅。小戴真心感谢三年来各位领导、同事对我的帮助和支持，我会铭记于心。聚是火，散是星，希望七室越来越好，大家越来越好，江湖不远，我们有缘再见。</p></blockquote><p><br><br> 2018年毕业入职来到了云岗这个地方</p><p>至今也三年有余了</p><p>今年做的另外一件大决定就是<strong>辞掉了我毕业后的第一份工作</strong></p><p>上面这段话就是我离职后回家的高铁上编辑的</p><p>发送到了部门群后，就退出群聊了</p><p>也算是给我过去的这段时间画上一个句号<br><br></p><p>关于工作今年也是比较坎坷</p><p>都说今年是<strong>互联网行业的寒冬</strong></p><p>那我是真真实实经历了<strong>一场冰雹</strong></p><p>从一个算是铁饭碗的事业单位离职后入职新公司不到一个月的时间</p><p>就经历了又一次失业</p><p>职场的残酷也着实把我之前规划好的各种计划撕得粉碎</p><p>所以再一次选择工作单位的时候</p><p>经过再三权衡和思考</p><p>还是选择了离家最近、状态最稳定的一个</p><p>虽然可能会少了很多可能性</p><p>但是很多决定确实不能只考虑到自己了<br><br></p><p>今年的工作不能算非常顺利</p><p>但总体还是平稳过渡了</p><p>也是自参加工作以来最轻松度过的一年了</p><p>年中的时候也是非常难得地有将近2个月的时间重新规划自己未来的方向</p><p>不过这种太过超乎计划之内的工作变动</p><p>我是再不想经历第二遍</p><h2 id="学习" tabindex="-1"><a class="header-anchor" href="#学习" aria-hidden="true">#</a> 学习</h2><p><br><br> 这是我觉得<strong>今年做的做差的一个方面</strong><br><br></p><p>上半年有些浑浑噩噩，一心想着辞职</p><p>年中又经历一场失业的风波</p><p>下半年才慢慢融入新的工作和生活环境</p><p>今年制定的学习计划执行情况就是不及格<br><br></p><p>本来还想参加软考取得个证书</p><p>一方面自己也没有认真准备</p><p>另一方面因为疫情，北京直接取消了今年的考试<br><br></p><p>逆水行舟，不进则退</p><p>保持学习、保持专业</p><p>这也是<strong>保证自己具有竞争力</strong>最根本的要求</p><p>今年欠下的，明年一定要补回来了<br><br></p><h2 id="公众号" tabindex="-1"><a class="header-anchor" href="#公众号" aria-hidden="true">#</a> 公众号</h2><blockquote><p>临近而立之年，工作于体制内已过三载，自觉无有所成，又嫌不思进取，故有经营公众号之思，名曰“你好戴先生”，不定期发布技术及反思之文，欲与吾辈同修，还望众人鼎力关注支持，戴某人不胜感激。</p></blockquote><p><br><br> 这是我公众号“你好戴先生”的简介</p><p>最初想做这个公众号有两个想法<br><br></p><p>其一是想<strong>对自己的专业有个交代</strong></p><p>因为身处相对稳定、技术偏老的央企事业单位</p><p>随着对环境的熟悉和适应，自觉工作是更加驾轻就熟</p><p>但是技术的成长却停滞不前</p><p>深知当年从一所河南垫底的普通二本</p><p>考入北科大的计算机硕士研究生的不易</p><p>绝不能让自己这么轻易丢掉自己的专业</p><p>所以想通过这种方式督促自己持续学习<br><br></p><p>其二是<strong>分享和表达自己的一些想法和态度</strong></p><p>我很多时候都觉得如果我没有做程序员</p><p>可能更适合我的工作是一名老师</p><p>我非常享受把自己的经验、想法、态度、知识分享出去的感觉</p><p>愿意与志同道合之人共同学习、交流<br><br></p><p>算上这篇文章，2021年共发了25篇文章</p><p>其中技术类15篇，其他类10篇</p><p>相较年初，关注人数增加了74.4%</p><p>平均下来一个月也就两篇文章，技术类的也就一篇</p><p>比我预期的还是少了很多</p><p>主要原因其实还是执行力不够</p><p>很容易被一些事情打断</p><p>而且一打断就会断更很长时间</p><p>所以公众号这方面2021年我只能给自己打一个及格分</p><h2 id="小目标" tabindex="-1"><a class="header-anchor" href="#小目标" aria-hidden="true">#</a> 小目标</h2><blockquote><p>知行合一，这应该就是我对自己2022年最大的要求吧</p></blockquote><p><br><br> 2022年，算是我人生另一个阶段的开始</p><p>艰难方显勇毅，磨砺始得玉成</p><p>新的一年不想给自己定太过具体的目标</p><p>只想让自己真正做到知行合一</p><p>把<strong>要做的事情做完</strong></p><p>把<strong>想做的事情做好</strong></p><p>把<strong>能做的事情做到</strong></p><p>不愧于心，不悔于己，不憾于人 <br><br></p><p>努力让公众号关注人数翻一倍</p><p>努力发表公众号文章40篇</p><p>努力完成三本专业技术书籍的阅读</p><p>努力拿到软考的证书</p><p>努力减重5公斤</p><p>努力学一项新技能</p><p>努力工作上再上一个台阶 <br><br></p><p>今年的个人总结至此完结</p><p>愿我们每一个人越来越好，所想能成<br><br></p><p>明年再见<br><br></p><div style="text-align:right;"><p>文/戴先生@2021年12月30日</p></div></div><!----><footer class="page-meta"><!----><div class="meta-item update-time"><span class="label">上次编辑于: </span><span class="info">2022/6/4 21:27:52</span></div><div class="meta-item contributors"><span class="label">贡献者: </span><!--[--><!--[--><span class="contributor" title="email: daijiyong.p@qq.com">daijiyong</span><!--]--><!--]--></div></footer><!----><!----><!----><!--]--></main><!--]--><footer class="footer-wrapper"><div class="footer"></div><div class="copyright">Copyright © 2022 Mr.Dai</div></footer><!--]--></div><!--]--><!----><!--]--></div>
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